The Japanese and Adultery

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The Japanese and Adultery

Foreign Student (hereinafter FS): The adulterous affairs of celebrities or members of Parliament often appear in the news. How do the Japanese view adultery? Teacher (hereinafter T): There was a news story about a female TV personality with a clean image – who had appeared in many TV commercials – having an affair with a vocalist in a band. Although the weekly magazine that reported on this affair printed 20% more copies than usual, all of these sold out. So you might say that Japanese people are concerned about adultery among the famous. In 2014 the news that France’s President Hollande was secretly meeting with an actress, despite already having a partner, caused quite a stir, even in Japan. A survey by a French company revealed that 77% of French people felt that this was a private matter that just happened to concern the president. The Japanese were surprised by the tolerance of the French. In Japan, adultery is not punishable by law, but famous people are socially disgraced when their affairs are given widespread coverage in the media. In 1989 it was leaked to the media that an ex-geisha had been the lover of Japan’s Prime Minister UNO Sosuke. It created a big fuss and he had to resign from his post as prime minister only two months after assuming office. FS: Wasn’t there also the adultery case of the member of the House of Representatives who had declared that he would set an example by taking paternity leave despite the fact that in Japan it’s not common for men to take childcare leave? T: It was widely reported in the media that he committed adultery just before his wife – also a member of the House of Representatives – was about to deliver their baby and, as a result, he had to resign. FS: Is adultery punishable conventionally by law anywhere in the world? T: In some Islamic countries stoning is still practiced as a punishment and in some Asian countries adulterers are punished as criminals. In Japan about 1,000 years ago, husbands and wives did not live together, and it was common for a husband to make visits to his wife’s house. t is said that relations between men and women were more relaxed. In the 18th century, it was made legal for men to punish their wives and the person their wives had committed adultery with. Later, adultery became a serious crime, with men being put into jail after being paraded through the city streets and women being sentenced to death. F: How are things nowadays? T: When the TV drama “Kinyoubi no Tsumatachi e” (To Wives on Fridays) was broadcast in 1983, because of its popularity, the term “furin” (adultery) became widespread. In 1997 “Shitsurakuen” (Paradise Lost), a novel written by WATANABE Junichi that explored the theme of adultery, became a bestseller and was selected for the grand prize of the New Expressions and Buzzwords Competition. In 2014 the TV drama “Hirugao” (Day Face), starring UETO Aya, caused quite a stir. FS: What comments do people who have committed adultery make to the public? T: In the past an actor remarked that “adultery is part of our culture,” and a president of a film company commented that, “I did not make an actress my lover. I only made my lover an actress.” Now that the Internet is so well developed, famous people who’ve had affairs have to take the only partially serious condemnation of the general public and adopt a pose of deep regret.

留学生りゅうがくせい
ryuugakusei
Foreign Student
以下いかりゅう):
ika, ryuu
hereinafter FS
芸能人げいのうじん
geinoujinn
celebrities
ya
or
国会こっかい議員ぎいん
kokkai giinn
members of Parliament
no
of
不倫ふりん
furinn ga
(the) adulterous affairs
よく
yoku
often
報道ほうどうされます。
houdou saremasu.
appear in the news
日本人にほんじん
nihonnjinn ha
the Japanese
不倫ふりんたいして
furinn ni taishite
adultery
どのような
donoyouna
how
見方みかたをしているのですか。
mikata wo shiteiru no desuka.
do view ?
先生せんせい
sennsei
Teacher
以下いかせん):
ika, senn
hereinafter T
清潔せいけつかんのある
seiketsu kann no aru
clean
イメージいめーじ
ime-ji
a[n] image
de
with
たくさんの
takusann no
many
テレビてれびコマーシャルこまーしゃる
terebi koma-sharu
TV commercials
ni
in
ていた
deteita
(who) had appeared
女性じょせいタレントたれんと
jyosei tarennto ga
(a) female TV personality
あるバンドばんどボーカルぼーかる
aru banndo bo-karu
(a) vocalist in (a) band
to
with
不倫ふりんをしていた
furinn wo shite ita
having (an) affair
という
toiu
story about
ニュースにゅーす
nyu-su ga
(a) news
ありました。
arimashita.
there was
それを
sore wo
this (affair)
報道ほうどうした
houdou shita
(that) reported (on)
週刊誌しゅうかんし
shuukannshi ha
(the) weekly magazine
2わり
niwari
twenty percent
増刷ぞうさつしました
zousatsu shimashita
printed more (copies than usual)
が、
ga,
although
れました。
urikire mashita.
(all of these) sold out
日本人にほんじん
nihonnjinn ha
Japanese people
有名人ゆうめいじん
yuumeijinn
the famous
no
among
不倫ふりん
furinn ni
adultery
関心かんしんがある
kannshinn ga aru
are concerned about
to
that
いえるでしょう。
ieru deshou.
(so you) might say
2014にせんじゅうよねん
nisennjyuuyonenn
two thousand fourteen [year]
ni
in
フランスふらんす
furannsu no
France’s
オランドおらんど大統領だいとうりょうが、
oranndo daitouryou ga,
Hollande President
パートナーぱーとなー
pa-tona- ga
(a) partner
いながら
inagara
despite (already) having
女優じょゆう
jyoyuu
(an) actress
to
with
密会みっかいしたという
mikkai shita to iu
was secretly meeting
ニュースにゅーす
nyu-su ha
(the) news (that)
日本にほん
nihonn
Japan
でも
demo
even in
話題わだい
wadai ni
(quite a) stir
なりました。
narimashita.
caused
フランスふらんす
furannsu no
French
民間みんかん
minnkann
(a) company
世論よろん調査ちょうさ
yoronn chousa
(a) survey
では
deha
by
これは
koreha
this
個人的こじんてき
kojinn teki na
private
こと
koto
(a) matter
であり、
de ari,
was (that)
たまたま
tamatama
happened
大統領だいとうりょう
daitouryou
(the) president
だった
datta
to concern
だけ
dake
just
to
that
する
suru
felt
ひと
hito ga
(French) people
77ななじゅうななぱーせんと
nanajyuunana pa-sennto
seventy-seven percent (of)
でした。
deshita.
revealed (that)
日本人にほんじん
nihonnjinn ha
the Japanese
フランス人ふらんすじん
furannsu jinn
the French
no
of
寛大かんだい
kanndai sa
(the) tolerance
ni
by
おどろききました。
odoroki mashita.
were surprised
日本にほん
nihonn
Japan
では
deha
in
不倫ふりん
furinn ha
adultery
法的ほうてき
houteki ni
by law
処罰しょばつされません
shobatsu sare masenn
is not punishable
が、
ga,
but
有名人ゆうめいじん
yuumeijinn ha
famous people
メディアめでぃあ
medhia
(the) media
de
in
おおきく
ookiku
widespread coverage
報道ほうどうされ、
houdou sare
(their affairs) are given when
社会的しゃかいてき
shakaiteki ni
socially
はじをさらすことになります。
haji wo sarasu koto ni narimasu.
are disgraced
1989せんきゅうひゃくはちじゅうきゅうねん
sennkyuuhyaku hachijyuukyuu nenn
nineteen eighty-nine [year]
ni
in
元芸者もとげいしゃ
moto geisha ga
(an) ex-geisha
宇野うの宗佑そうすけ総理そうり大臣だいじん
uno sousuke souri daijinn
Uno Sosuke (Japan’s) Prime minister
no
of
愛人あいじん
aijinn
(the) lover
だった
datta
had been
to
that
メディアめでぃあ
medhia
(the) media
ni
to
リークりーくしました。
ri-ku shimashita.
(it) was leaked
大騒おおさわ
oosawagi
(a) big fuss
となり、
to nari,
(it) created and
宇野うの総理そうり
uno souri ha
he <Uno prime minister>
就任しゅうにん
shuuninngo
assuming office after
2カ月かげつあまりで
nikagetsu amari de
two months only
やめざるをなくなりました。
yamezaru wo enaku nari mashita.
had to resign (from his post as prime minister)
りゅう
ryuu
FS
男性だんせい
dannsei ga
for men
育児いくじ休暇きゅうか
ikuji kyuuka wo
childcare leave
とりにくい
torinikui
(it)’s not common to take
日本にほん
nihonn
Japan
で、
de,
despite (the fact that) in
率先そっせんして
sossenn shite
(he) would set (an) example <taking the intiative)
産休さんきゅう
sannkyuu wo
paternity leave
とる
toru
by taking
to
that
表明ひょうめいした
hyoumei shita
(who) had declared
衆議院しゅうぎいん議員ぎいん
shuugiinn giinn
(the) House of Representatives (the) member (of)
no
of
不倫ふりん
furinn
(the) adultery (case)
mo
also
ありましたね。
arimashita ne.
wasn’t there ?
せん
senn
T
おな
onaji
also
議員ぎいんである
giinn de aru
(a) member (of the House of Representatives)
つま
tsuma ga
(his) wife
出産しゅっさんする
shussann suru
was about to deliver (their baby)
間際まぎわ
magiwa ni
just before
不倫ふりんしていた
furinn shite ita
(he) committed adultery
ことが
koto ga
that
メディアめでぃあ
medhia
(the) media
de
in
おおきく
ookiku
widely
報道ほうどうされ、
houdou sare,
(it) was reported and
結局けっきょく
kekkyoku
as a result
辞職じしょくしました。
jishoku shimashita.
(he) had to resign
りゅう
ryuu
FS
不倫ふりんたいして
furinn ni taishite
adultery
世界せかいでは
sekai deha
(anywhere) in the world
一般的いっぱんてき
ippannteki ni
conventionally
法的ほうてき
houteki na
by law
処罰しょばつがあるのですか。
shobatsu ga aru no desuka.
is punishable ?
せん
senn
T
イスラムいすらむけん
isuramu kenn
Islamic countries
では
deha
in
いしちのけい
ishi uchi no kei ga
stoning as (a) punishment
いま
ima mo
still
おこなわれている
okonawarete iru
is practiced
くにがあり、
kuni ga ari,
[countries] and some
アジアあじあ
ajia
Asian countries
では
deha
in
犯罪者はんざいしゃ
hannzaisha
criminals
として
to shite
as
処罰しょばつする
shobatsu suru
(adulterers) are punished
くにもあります。
kuni mo arimasu.
[countries also] some
日本にほん
nihonn
Japan
では、
deha,
in
せんねん
senn nenn
one thousand years
ほど
hodo
about
まえ
mae ha
ago
おっと
otto
husbands
to
and
つま
tsuma ha
wives
同居どうきょせず、
doukyo sezu,
did not live together and
つまいえ
tsuma no ie
(his) wife’s house
ni
to
おっと
otto ga
for (a) husband
かようのが
kayou noga
to make visits
主流しゅりゅうでした。
shuryuu deshita.
(it) was common
男女だんじょ関係かんけい
dannjyo kannkei ha
(between) men and women relations
おおらか
ooraka
were more relaxed
だったようです。
datta you desu.
(it) is said (that)
18じゅうはち世紀せいき
jyuuhachi seiki
(the) eighteenth century
には
niha
in
不倫ふりんした
furinn shita
had committed adultery with
つま
tsuma
(their) wives
to
and
その
sono
the
相手あいて
aite wo
person
処罰しょばつすることが
shobatsu suru koto ga
(for men) to panish
合法化ごうほうか
gouhouka
legal
されていました。
sarete imashtia.
(it) was made
その
sonogo,
later
不倫ふりん
furinn ha
adultery
大犯罪だいはんざい
daihannzai to
(a) serious crime
なり、
nari,
became
おとこ
otoko ha
(with) men
市内しない
shinai wo
through (the) city streets
まわされた
hikimawasareta
being paraded
あと
ato ni
after
牢屋ろうや
rouya
jail
れられ、
ni irerare,
being put into and
おんな
onnna ha
women
死罪しざいとなりました。
shizai to narimashita.
being sentenced to death
りゅう
ryuu
F
現代げんだい
genndai ha
nowadays
どうなのですか。
dounano desu ka.
how are (things)?
さき
senn
T
1983せんきゅうひゃくはちじゅうさんねん
sennkyuuhyaku hachijyuusann nenn
nineteen eighty-three [year]
ni
in
テレビてれびドラマどらま
terebi dorama
(the) TV drama
金曜日きんようびつまたちへ」が
kinnyoubi no tsuma tachi he ga
To Wives on Fridays
放映ほうえい
houei
was broadcast
されて
sarete
when
話題わだい
wadai ni
its popularity
なり、
nari,
because of
不倫ふりんという
furinn to iu
furin (adultery)
言葉ことば
kotoba ga
(the) term
ひろがりました。
hirogari mashita.
became widespread
1997せんきゅうひゃくきゅうじゅうななねん
sennkyuuhyaku kyuujyuunana nenn
nineteen ninety-seven [year]
には
niha
in
不倫ふりん
furinn wo
adultery
テーマてーまにした
te-ma ni shita
(that) explored (the) theme (of)
渡辺わたなべ淳一じゅんいち
watanabe jyunnichi
Watanabe Junichi
no
written by
小説しょうせつ
shousetsu
(a) novel
失楽園しつらくえん」が
shitsurakuenn ga
Paradise Lost
ベストセラーべすとせらー
besuto sera- to
(a) bestseller
なり、
nari,
became and
流行語りゅうこうご大賞たいしょう
ryuukougotaishou
(the) grand prize of (the) New Expressions and Buzzwords Competition
にも
nimo
for [also]
なりました。
narimashita.
was selected
2014にせんじゅうよんねん
nisennjyuuyo nenn
Two thousand fourteen [year]
には
niha
in
上戸うえとあや
ueto aya
Ueto Aya
主演しゅえん
shuenn no
starring
テレビてれびドラマどらま
terebi dorama
(the) TV drama
昼顔ひるがお
hirugao
Day Face
も、
mo,
[also]
話題わだい
wadai ni
(quite a) stir
なりました。
narimashita.
caused
りゅう
ryuu
FS
不倫ふりん
furinn wo
adultery
した
shita
(who) have committed
ひと
hito ha
people
大衆たいしゅう
taishuu
(the) public
ni
to
どのような
donoyouna
what
コメントこめんと
komennto wo
comments
しているのですか。
shiteiru no desuka.
do make?
せん
senn
T
かつて、
katsute,
in the past
ある俳優はいゆう
aru haiyuu ha
(an) actor
不倫ふりん
furinn ha
adultery
文化ぶんか
bunnka
is (part of our) culture
to
that
発言はつげんしました。
hatsugenn shimashita.
remarked
また、
mata,
and
ある映画えいが会社がいしゃ
aru eiga gaisha
(a) film company
no
of
社長しゃちょう
shachou ha
(a) president
わたし
watashi ha
I
女優じょゆう
jyoyuu wo
(an) actress
愛人あいじん
aijinn ni
(my) lover
したのではない。
shita no deha nai.
did not make
愛人あいじん
aijinn wo
(my) lover
女優じょゆう
jyoyuu ni
(an) actress
した
shita
(I) made
だけだ」
dake da
only
to
that
べました。
nobe mashita.
commented
インターネットいんたーねっと
innta-netto ga
(the) Internet
発達はったつした
hattatsu shita
is so well developed
現代げんだい
genndai,
now (that)
不倫ふりんした
furinn shita
(who)’ve had affairs
有名人ゆうめいじん
yuumeijinn ha
famous people
面白おもしろ半分はんぶん
omoshiro hannbunn no
only partially
大衆たいしゅう
taishuu
(the) general public
から
kara
of <from>
痛烈つうれつ批難ひなん
tsuuretsu na hinann wo
(the) serious condemnation
けて、
ukete,
have to take and
ひたすら
hitasura
deep <only>
あやま
ayamaru
regret <apologize>
ポーズぽーず
po-zu wo
(a) pose (of)
っています。
totte imasu.
adopt

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