Male and Female Speech Style

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Male and Female Speech Style

Japanese is often said to be complex. One example of this is the distinction between male and female speech. For example, in the case of “hidoi (terrible),” many men would say something like “hidoi na ,” while many women would say “hidoi wa .” Men have tended to prefer language that conveys roughness and strength. On the other hand, women use expressions that suggest softness and gentleness. When referring to themselves, men use words like “boku” or “ore, ” while women use words like “watashi ” or “atashi .” Many words are used differently depending on gender. For example, men often say “hara ” for the abdomen, while women say “onaka .” It’s said that male and female speech styles developed as a way to clearly distinguish between genders in novels and plays. However, in modern times, language and fashion have become more unisex, and aside from a few terms, the distinction between male and female speech has largely faded. Japanese has a characteristic where the style of expression changes depending on relationships and purpose, including honorifics, written language, colloquial speech, and casual speech referring to “tamego. ” Male and female speech styles are part of this, but language evolves with the times, and in modern Japanese learning, it’s not something to be particularly aware of. (From June issue, 2024 / 2024年6月号より)

ほん
nihonngo ha
Japanese
ふくざつだと
fukuzatsu da to
to be complex
よく
yoku
often
われます。
iware masu.
is said
おとこことおんなこと
otoko kotoba to onnna kotoba
male and female speech
使つかけも
no tsukaiwake mo
this is the distinction between
そのひとつとえるでしょう。
sono hitotsu to ieru deshou.
one example of
たとえば
tatoeba
for example
「ひどい」
“hidoi”
hidoi
あい
no baai,
in the case of
だんせい
dannsei
men
おおくは
no ooku ha
many
「ひどいな」
“hidoi na”
hidoi na
など、
nado,
would say something like
じょせい
josei ha
(while) many women
「ひどいわ」
“hidoi wa”
hidoi wa
のようにひょうげんします。
no you ni hyougenn shi masu.
would say
だんせいは、
dannsei ha,
men
あらあらしさ
araarashisa
roughness
ya
and
つよさを
tsuyosa wo
strength
かんじさせる
kannji saseru
that conveys
こと使づかいを
kotoba dukai wo
language
このんで
kononnde
to prefer
きました。
ki mashita.
have tended
いっぽう
ippou,
on the other hand
じょせいは、
josei ha,
women
やわらかさ、
yawarakasa,
softness
やさしさを
yasashisa wo
and gentleness
かんじさせる
kannji saseru
suggest
まわしをします。
iimawashi wo shi masu.
use expressions that
ぶん
jibunn
themselves
かた
wo sasu yobi kata
referring to
として、
to shite,
when
だんせい
dannsei ha
men
ぼく
“boku”
(like) boku
おれ」、
“ore”,
or ore (use words)
じょせい
josei ha
(while) women
「わたし」
“watashi”
watashi
「あたし」
“atashi”
or atashi
などを
nado wo
like
使づかいます。
tsukai masu.
use words
せいべつ
seibetsu
gender
によって
ni yotte
depending on
使つかけられる
tsukai wakerareru
are used differently
こと
kotoba ha
words
おおく、
ooku,
many
たとえば、
tatoeba,
for example
ふくのことを
fukubu no koto wo
for the abdomen
だんせい
dannsei ha
men
はら」、
“hara”,
(often say) hara
じょせい
josei ha
(while) women
「おなか」
“onaka”
onaka
います。
to ii masu.
say
おとこことおんなことは、
otoko kotoba onnna kotoba ha,
male and female speech styles
しょうせつ
shousetsu
novels
ya
and
えんげき
enngeki
plays
de
in
だんじょ調ちょう
dannjo no kuchou wo
between genders
わかりやすく
wakari yasuku
a way to clearly
ひょうげんしたことから
hyougenn shita koto kara
distinguish
はったつしたとも
hattatsu shita tomo
developed as
われます。
iware masu.
it’s said that
しかし、
shikashi,
however
げんだい
genndai
modern times
では
deha
in
こと
kotoba
language
mo
and
ファッションも
fasshon mo
fashion
ユニセックスし、
yunisekkusu’ka shi,
have become more unisex
いちこと
ichibu no kotoba wo
and a few terms
のぞけば
nozokeba
aside from
使つかけは
tsukai wake ha
the distinction between
あまりされなくなっています。
amari sare naku natte i masu.
(male and female speech) has largely faded
ほんは、
nihonngo ha,
Japanese
けい
keigo,
honorifics
こと
kaki’kotoba,
written language
こう
kougo,
colloquial speech and
「タメ
“tamego”
tamego
われる
to iwa reru
referring to
くだけたはなかた
kudaketa hanashi kata
casual speech
など、
nado,
including
にんげんかんけい
ninngenn kannkei
relationships
ya
and
もくてき
mokuteki
purpose
de
depending on
ひょうげん
hyougenn
expression
no
of
かた
shikata ga
the style
わる
kawaru
changes
というとくちょう
to iu tokuchou
a characteristic
があります。
ga ari masu.
has
おとこことおんなこと
otoko kotoba onnna kotoba
male and female speech styles
もそのひとつです
mo sono hitotsu desu
are part of this
が、
ga,
but
こと
kotoba ha
language
だい
jidai
the times
とも
to tomo ni
with
うつわっており、
utsuri kawatte ori,
evolves and
げんだい
genndai no
modern
ほんがくしゅう
nihonngo gakushuu
Japanese learning
においては
ni oite ha
in
とく
toku ni
particularly
しきすることはないでしょう。
ishiki suru koto ha nai deshou.
it’s not something to be aware of

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